First BBQ in Karlskrona

We had a BBQ last Sunday with the engineer's team.. Had a good time but super cold time.. The wind just keep blowing against ur spines... Woosh! Yeah, must mention :This baby is just a month old! She's a girl.. Papa is Mr Ho and Mama is Victoria.. She's a beautiful baby girl.. My husband loves to carry but scared she might slipped through the holes of his arms..
Wa, I tell u sia, he hope so much that this's our daughter.. He actually scared of carrying her, but after seeing Barry carried her, he also tried.. Then he's hooked.. When we reached home that day, he told me he really hope to have kids really soon.. Then he'll spend his time working more hard, not to let me and our kid suffer.. This's wat he said la.. Im trying hard ok...

This young ah beng is one of the youngest. He's only 21! Haha, he told my hubby if this baby is his daughter, how happy would he be! Haha, Barry, u die la, we'll pass this msg to Lee Chia.. Make sure when she comes in Aug to visit u alone, but go back Singapore in 2.. Haha.. Squadron without him to tell us jokes n craps, it'wouldn't be so fun..
Look at her, she's so beautiful, isn't she? Makes me want to carry her more, makes my hubby drool more to faster have kids.. Aiyo, n he loves daughters!
Yummy, yummy, chicken wings, hotdogs,marinated pork, ham, wa... Males waiting for food takes longer while women have the first priority..

This girl girl got the "Rene Liu" style.. She's quite quiet and very gentle...
This baby girl belongs to Christina.. Her eyes are like Mummy's.. She's only 6 months old.. My hubby said her eyes very beautiful.. I told him forget the idea, cuz his eyes are mimi yan... So our daughter better have my eyes... Ya, Christina is previously from NHC- CCU where I was previously in NHC-ICA!! How co-incident.. No wonder I find her so familiar... Issac said the world is so small.. Haha, ya, it is!
This girl is ard 1 yr plus ba... She quite sai-nai.. and temperamental.. But my hubby still managed to get her giving him a lollipop... Haha, think his paternal instinct is getting stronger... I better take more tonics now to be stronger...

Our story..

High class Lady and Gentleman

Both Korean Oma n Opa

Both China Abu n Apa

Eh, princess wor!

Both Singapore Auntie n Uncle

Both Sentosa Ah Girl n Ah Boy


I like this chinese Kua costume. When I wore it, I really feel like Im getting married. I like the black n white photo on the right side.. It's so well well taken as if my Hubby is telling me he'll love and take care of me forever, just rest assured to hand myself to him, hahaha.. The advantage of taking these type of photo is u won't look fat...

I like the Korean costume also becuz I really look like Korean momoni, think I only lack of the 2 "spotlights" which we always saw the ladies in palace have on their heads.. And no matter what, u won't look fat too. I like the color combination, it's very well combined. My dad also said he never think that his daughter looked so good in Korean costume!

This is 2nd gown that I chose. It was not the initial gown that I choose. I came over this gown on the rack n decided to give it a shot. It turns out well,and dun need any alteration at all, so ok la.. Book liao menn.. May who is my artist does the job well. Thumbs up for her.

I love this 2 photos as I looked slim! And my hubby looked handsome!! Haha, this time round I think he looked more shuai(4) and cute than JJ Lin Junjie. GO, CHEE HAW GO, wo yong yuan zhi chi ni!! My dream of marrying a handsome n good man came true!!

No choice, he got to kneel! Who ask him never give me flowers, never kneel when he proposes to me that time.. Wahaha, retribution... All these poses are taught by our photographer, Alex from my bridal shop, Yvonne Creative. find him if u choose my bridal shop.

This is our baobei car, the very first Toyota Vios we bought. Luckily, it has taken some shots with us before we sold it off as we are leaving for Sweden.. It's been with us for nearly 2 yrs, very "she bu de" when we watched the new owner drives it away.. we'll always remember our dear "SGJ 7244G".

This was taken somewhere at Alexandra. It has a big patch of greenery, very nice leh.. The photos seems nice, but u know how hot is that day? My hubby said he's sweating inside n feel so tired, but I still enjoyed the shoots.. I love this curvature of my back in this gown.. Im very proud to show my back cuz I think the skin there is flawless.. Too bad, my hubby usually dun let me wear too little.. He say I can let him see only...Ok lor, i guai guai be my xiao nu ren..

This was taken somewhere at Sentosa, think it was a restricted area. Actually, the photos taken outdoor, Im tearing all the way, cuz it's very hot.. Im wearing the false lashes and double eyelid n it's kinda falling off at the end of my eyes becuz of my sweat, it's poking me and the photographer keep asking to do poses that need to look up to the sky one, alamak.. I was holding a tissue paper to wipe the tears.. My hubby was wiping for me all the way.. Poor man..

This is taken at the Sentosa Tanjong Beach. It's around 5-6 plus in the evening, so the sky gives a wonderful view.. My photographer is superb la.. I likes this photo of my hubby. He looked so man.. I like his arms, with the Swatch watch I bought him and the colors of him showed the veins of a man, wa, turns me on.. From that moment, then I know my hubby looked so handsome when he wears suit! Aiya, but he never like to wear leh, he likes t-shirt n bermudas and his nike slippers..

I loved this photo cuz this's one of the photo of me which dun need editing! Nan de, cuz of my baobao face.. And the background looks wonderful.The kiss is just right at this angle.. This is good one!

We are finally married, somemore married to the man I love most, what's more can I ask for in life? Chee Haw n me went through a lot. We've been together when we were both 18 n 19 years old n broke off months after that cuz lacking of communication. We been out of contact for 6 yrs. For these 6 yrs, we have lived our own lives, not contacting each other at all. It was all fate that brought us together again and things started well this time n we made a pact not to let each other guess what we are thinking. So we talked about almost everything n all turns out well. We started dating again on 8th Oct 2005 after we met again.. Got ROM on 12th Feb 2007 and traditionally married on 1st March 2008. Chee Haw n I took great care of each other and we can't breathe without each other. It's has always been my dream to marry a handsome, capable n good man. He's handsome, he's a man with not much temper, he's super honest, he loves kids, he respects elderly and he respects me as a wife. I loved the way he called me baby over the phone, it just makes me feel im in love everyday.. Even now we got to stay in Sweden for 3 yrs becuz of him, Im very willing to cook and take care of his needs everyday. I wanted to be a good wife cuz he's a good husband.. Lastly, I wanted to say from the bottom of my heart: Baby, I love u very much, we shall walk together hand in hand till we are old, muacks, "..

Sending off at T3 on 21st April 2008

The farewell dinner for me n hubby at the place where we held our wedding.. That day dun have chance to eat, today must eat all!!

There finally comes a day which ppl have to part, luckily for us, it's only a 3yrs parting.. We are going off to Karlskrona, a small town of Southern Sweden. We are carrying 2 lugguages and 2 haversacks.. Let me see how many we'll bring back when we returned to SG in 3 yrs' time. It's always sad to send someone off.. But Im still believe I will be strong..

We reached T3 at around 1030pm. All my relatives:(must mention their names menn)Ah Ma, my whole family, Ah Di, Meifang, Ah Mei, Ah Yong, Lijun, Mingxiang, Lingmin, Mingren, Cuiyi, Kiayi, Damei arrived to send me n hubby to Sweden.. Aiyo, so touched.. For hubby's side, his mum and brother came only.. It's as if Im going OJT instead of him..

With Dad n Mum

From top left: with my 3 Yandao younger brothers..Yuan, Bui and You

My mum arrived with 2 swollen red eyes becuz she couldn't bear me to leave her. My 3 yandao brothers all give me their best wishes. Ah Yuan n his gf , Chunyun gave us winter wear, Ah Bui gave me a kaya toasted bread and Ah You gave me a little ang pao with a warm little note inside.. He bet with my mum that I sure cry when i read the note.. Haha, he lost, I was very touched but I din cry..As for my Dad, always MIA, going outside to smoke.. alamak.. But I knew he couldn't bear to see me off too..

With Ah Di and his gf " Mui Huang" (My ah ma likes to call her this..)

With Mingren and Xiao Ding Dong Damei

With the hippie hoppie Ah Mei and her big bro: Ah Yong and gf, Lijun

With little professor Minmin and bro Ah Xiang

My 2 single rich ah yis and my dearest dearest Ah Ma

With Peili and Barry's gf, Lee Chia

My frens, included Peili from my primary sch. Jinfeng, Rongli, Xiaomei from my sec sch came(Not in the pict).. They say that day in KTV take too much enough picts with me liao, now sianz..And we talked cock..Frens, thanks for the effort..

We mingled around until around 11.50pm then we checked in and bid farewell. I was starting to have the "she bu de" feeling but was trying hard to hold back my tears. After we entered the check-in, we waved at them and kiss good bye to my mum. I din looked back after that cuz my tears came rolling down liao.. My hubby was very loving, he consoled n consoled me n wipe my tears with his sleeve.. After that, we waited n waited just to board the plane.. n Finally, when im going on board, my relatives msg me they are eating Bedok Bak Chor Mee.. Shit, wat is this?!! But I still wanna say " I love everyone of u and take care!" My mood stabilises then n there we are on the way for a 13 hrs flight to Copenhagen then a coach to fetch us to Karlskrona which take ard 3 hrs...

Our Sweet Little Home in Polhemsgatan

We moved into our Polhemsgatan home on 29th April 2008. We are staying on the 2nd Storey that gives us a nice lake view. I have a small little balcony which I normally hang my clothes there to dry.. This is a photo taken from my balcony.. as day is longer than night, this photo is taken at around 7pm.. Erhm, I still think it looked a bit plain, maybe I'll plant some flowers when im more settled. Maybe tulips? But I heard from other wives that tulips may need a yr to grow.. Huh.... soooooooooooo longgggggggggggggggggg?

This's my unit. Take note that we do not unit number here, only go by our name. So pls frens, if u wanna send me something, u saw that small silver slot attached to my door? Ur thing better dun be larger than this slot or I need to walk very far to collect the stuff u've sent me..

This's the walkway after u enter my house. There's already a shelf when we moved in for u to hang clothes... so we made full use of it.. Next the place where u saw a lot of clothes is my storeroom. Their built-in cabinets in the master bedroom does not have those hanger shelves, so we gonna hang in the storeroom.. Can see right?

All long sleeves!! Cuz it's cold!!! Then the aboved pict shows my bathroom. It's quite small but still enuf to feel cosy enuf to for 2 persons to bathe together... I envy Aizhen's bathroom... She got bathtub!!! I envy Cindy's bathroom too cuz it's very big.. Think it's 2x bigger than my bathroom..Haiz....

This is our room. My bedsheet cute right? It's bought in Aussino in Singapore.. We actually intend to buy a bedframe but Ikea said they no longer sell the piece that we wanted... haha, save that money down.. Instead, we just put a carpet lor.. My ah lao dun like to sleep high high leh. ..Haiz, fussy man... Ask him to sleep in toilet la...

Here's come my kitchen... All the nice food, bad food are all prepared here. I make it a point that we must eat on the dining table or it'll be wasted.. Actually, we should have bought a bigger dining table.. Now cannot invite too many ppl to come for dinner too..Haiz... Wait till I go Ikea again n consider...Im like auntie now.. I bring along my black ikea trolley when I go supermarket... But hey, dun laugh ok, many ppl said very nice to use, can throw all the stuff inside hor...Beside it is the way to my living room liao.. Behind the 2 curtains is my balcony then..

Then comes to my living room. U see my yandao mermaid lying there? He's watching "Eragon".. He said finally the TV got some good shows.. The living room is small n cosy too.. I like this carpet.. It's cheap n nice, but it gets dirty very easily.. I gotta vacuum it very frequently, shit menn.. The TV console is too small, thinking of buying a bigger one..

Then it comes to: These 2 little ornaments are a gift from my mummy when we are preparing to get married.. I put it on with my TV console..She said if u want sex, u turn the 2 cartoons facing each other. If u want to reject but paiseh, turn the 2 cartoons away from each other. What a good suggestion!

Lastly, it's a picture taken 10mins's walk from my house.. Nice view right? But super cold lor!!